For you, along the way
Ask for practical help
When people say "let me know if you need anything," give them something specific. Meal delivery, a lawn mow, an evening of company, a ride to an appointment, help writing thank-you notes. Most people want to help and don't know how.
What you'll need
- A short list of specific things people could help with
Good to know
Be specific with asks: Instead of "let me know if you need anything," try "can I bring you dinner Tuesday" or "can I take the kids Saturday morning." Specific offers are easier to accept and easier to give.
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Why we recommend GiftWellSoon
GiftWellSoon is a free support registry, so friends and family can sign up for meals, errands, and other practical help in one place.

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A free support registry that helps individuals and families coordinate practical assistance.

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